Every year, around this time, you lot go through your annual Romance Review. Once again, love matters – and with it comes the need to examine the ways you form relationship. This influence relates to all the people in your life, not just the pretty, sexy, cute ones – but everyone that counts. So be prepared for feedback on how you are currently performing. Be warned – this critique may not be based so much on what you are actually doing, but rather reflects what the people around you need to say. As such, it may not be the whole truth but is still worth considering. You are being shown a reflection of how you are impacting the people in your world.
Therefore, September is a great month to get real about what’s happening in your relationship sphere. Are you happily engaged in win-win situations? Or are you forever in a fantasy, waiting for someone else to act, so giving you an excuse to exit stage-left? Alternately, are you being appreciated? Or are your special qualities being overlooked? Your path – as you know – involves finding appropriate boundaries within relationship. Can you maintain your sense of self whilst merging with others at the same time?
So what else is there for you to do but realistically face results? Take heed from what others say, even if you disagree. Feedback needn’t be criticism. It’s just a point of view. The solar eclipse last month kicked the questioning off. You have the chance to understand some deeply entrenched patterns, and finally work them out. This month, find the courage to be honest, and in so doing experience truth with the people in your life.